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Anyway, I've been trying to write a new post since quite some time... But ADHD and perfectionism don't go hand in hand.
I keep getting the urge to take a lot of time into doing high quality posts- and then ADHD hits and my mental energy is way too low to even spend a normal amount of time into writing.
So, I've decided to not do that lol
I'm just gonna keep posting regularly, even if it means posting what I would call "slop".
Bleh
Anyway; I am in college now, majoring on an I.T-related thingy. I am failing, very hard opqekfpoef
While failing on that, I spend most of my time getting rage-baited on Reddit (and by extension, Twitter too, since I see screenshots of it), occasionally learning cyber-sec, sometimes trying to move forward on my gamedev projects, blahblahblah.
Last time I got really pissed off on Reddit, was on a post about trans people and HRT- the post was a Tumblr screenshot of this person saying a lot of stuff, but, among everything, they said "HRT should be for everyone" (this, including cis people, btw).
And THEN, a shit-ton of idiots came to the comments to say that "cis people can't do HRT while still being cis people", "HRT would cause dysphoria to cis people", etc. And it was so annoying poqekgpoqefjpjqewgo
To put it simply, the reason why these people are WRONG, is because [gender identity] and [gender expression/presentation] are 2 separate-independent attributes. You can identify as WHATEVER you want, while also, independently, wanting to look like WHATEVER you want to look like.
For example, there's masc-men, who identify as men and are masculine- but there are also femboys, who are feminine men. There are fem-women, who identify as women and are feminine, but there's also tomboys, who identify as women yet are masculine.
You get the idea-
Being cis is simply aligning with your AGAB on [gender identity]: therefore-, you could still have a [gender expression] which doesn't align with that of your natural body... and if that happens, you CAN make use of HRT to alter your body. And guess what! You're still cis.
Anyway, rant over.
I'm still mad unu